Did you know that women almost always make more noise than men during sex? Doesn’t that sound like a crazy sort of assumption that some stupid guy would make based on one or two experiences with vociferous women? Well, as it turns out, this is totally true and it’s true across all cultures and among some primates in the animal kingdom. Now you know that when you hook up with a girl and she’s making all sorts of noises during sex that she is just like every other woman on the planet. You have to wonder why that happens though. Hopefully I can explain it.
The answer isn’t readily available, as it turns out. Research has been conducted on the subject, but not nearly enough to come up with a solid answer where human females are concerned. If you look at primates, the closest animal relatives to human beings, you can find answers that might give a clue to what’s going on with human females. As it turns out, it’s a form of communication, not surprisingly.
One of the most basic drives in any animal (humans included) is to reproduce. Propagating the species is the reason we’re all here on the planet. Loud noises by females during sex are thought to be part of that, although it makes more sense in the animal world. Essentially, if the female makes more noise she will attract more sexual partners to deposit more semen in here, thereby increasing her chances of getting pregnant, which would fulfill her purpose in the world. If you apply that to human females it doesn’t really make sense, even if you were to go way back in time. However, it could be one of those traits that’s left over from long ago and has yet to be washed away by evolution.
There is some evidence to suggest that the noise a female makes is related to the status of the man she’s having sex with. If he’s of higher status (measured in a variety of ways in different cultures) her noises are likely to be louder. In the world of primates that makes sense as a way to establish hierarchy in the pack/tribe/group. In certain groups of humans that same reason makes sense (think of a tribe in the Amazon where they live in close quarters with little privacy so everyone knows what everyone else is doing).
In more advanced countries it makes sense that a woman would make more noise when having sex with a man of higher status (again, as determined by a variety of cultural factors) to encourage him to want to have sex with her again. Much of this operates on a subconscious level that we don’t really have control of, but in some ways it’s nice to know and as sex advice it can be interesting to have in your head as you’re having sex. For instance, if a woman seems louder than moral when you hook up perhaps it’s because she thinks of you as a high status male. Wouldn’t that feel good?
Ultimately it won’t make much difference in your quest to find sex, although if you’re using the internet to find strictly casual sex you could infer from this information that women want to be with men of high status and you can mess with your profile a little to make it seem like you’re higher status than you might actually be. If it’s just a hook up she doesn’t have to find out that you like a little to make yourself more attractive and make it easier to find sex. Go ahead and give it a try and see how it works out.
There’s a wide world of different sex positions out there (books have even been written about them) but the truth of the matter is that going too far into position experimentation can detract from your sexual experience and in particular your orgasm. If you’ve dedicated half your brain power to figuring out the position, keeping your balance, and trying to manage your thrusts as you do all of that, you’re probably not going to concentrate on the intimate pleasure of being naked and inside another person and the orgasm that will bring you. Hopefully the following sex advice will educate you as to interesting positions that aren’t too complicated.
You’ve probably done the doggy style position before but the truth is that for most women it doesn’t provide enough stimulation to produce an orgasm. That’s because female orgasms almost always come from clitoral stimulation and in doggy style she’s not getting any of that. Instead, try a modified doggy style where she lies on her stomach with her butt lifted just a little as you enter her from behind. The area feels tighter to you, thereby increasing pleasure, and she gets to grind her clitoris into the bed, thereby increasing her stimulation so everyone goes home happy.
For those that take a little longer to orgasm, you might want to try something called the criss cross with your sex buddy. The guy lies on his side and his lady lies on her back. The lady then lifts both her legs over his upper thighs and the man can thrust into her gently and slowly. The benefit is that it doesn’t take a great deal of effort to make this sex position a successful effort, which means you can thrust all night long without tiring out. If your lady takes a great deal of time to orgasm you should give it a try. If you want a more relaxing sexual experience you should also consider it.
If a girl can combine clitoral and g-spot stimulation she’s almost guaranteed a thunderous orgasm. That’s easiest to accomplish if she’s using a specialized toy or you’re using your fingers, but it’s more fun for everyone if you can reach that magical place via sex. A modified reverse cowgirl is the best choice. You lie on your back, she sits on top of you and leans back so your erect penis is liable to stimulate her g-spot. If you support her she can use a free hand to rub her clitoris, bringing about an incredible orgasm.
If you happen to have a table that’s about waist high you should give your lady a good table banging. Have her lie on her back on the table so you can slip into her with ease and get the thrusting going. You can stimulate her clit or she can. Whatever you do, make sure your hands are active caressing her body in some way. Play with her breasts, rub her legs, and if she likes foot play then suck her toes as you continue to penetrate her.
For the final entry in the sex advice column we have the lap straddle. You should sit face to face and she should climb aboard and gently guide your member into her vagina. You’ll be pressed against each other as you fill her and when she bottoms out she can have fun. She’ll be able to grind against your pelvic area to generate clitoral stimulation or she can ride you for deep penetration. If she leans back there will be greater g-spot stimulation and you can go wild and suck on her breasts, making it feel so much better.
There are many routes to finding a sexy buddy for those times when you want to have a no strings attached romp in the bedroom without the complications that so often come with having sex. It typically requires a certain level of confidence to achieve sex buddy status with a woman. If you project weakness or desperation a girl that might be considering you as a sex buddy will write you off because she doesn’t want a guy that’s going to try and date her or spend the whole night cuddling and talking about his feelings. Not everyone is cut out to be in this kind of relationship and you need to decide if you’re that type of guy before you take the plunge.
There are rare occasions when this type of relationship happens as a result of real life flirtations. Imagine you’re hanging out with friends and you’ve had a few drinks so your normal inhibitions have disappeared and been replaced by the unfiltered version of you. You feel attracted to one of the ladies in the group and when you get her alone you flirt, heavily. You make it clear you’re thinking about sex with her and she responds. In your semi-drunken haze you go home with each other, hook up, and have the time of your lives. Next time you do it sober. You’re not really into each other in a relationship way but you sure had fun having sex. Now you’re sex buddies and as long as neither of you gets emotionally involved you’ll be fine.
That sounds wonderful, of course, but it almost never happens in real life. Instead, what typically unfolds is that you flirt in that way and put your interest out there and you get a drink thrown in your face, the girl tells the rest of your friends what a pervert you are, and you find yourself on the outs in your circle because you were such a pig. That’s why the ideal place to find sex and form a casual, mutually beneficial relationship is online.
When you turn to sex dating and use the internet as your means of finding partners you’re among like-minded people, which is the single best reason to go this route. When you log on to a sex dating site and browse the listings you know the ladies are there for the same thing you are (there are always outliers but if a woman goes on a sex dating website and talks about wanting a real relationship you can count on her being a little weird).
Casting your line amongst people that want the same thing as you is the smartest way to get it, which is why you need to push your efforts online to find sex. The bliss you’ll experience is potent! What’s incredible is that these sites are littered with beautiful women that want to have casual sex and then do it again the next week or the next night. If you want to form a sex buddy relationship with one particular woman you can do so or you can spread your wings and see just how many ladies you can charm into the bedroom with you. The choices are limitless and the pleasure you’ll feel is incredible. Sex dating is the wave of the future and it’s time you got on board and experienced why tens of millions of members belong to these sites. There are good things happening online. Do your research to find the best site, join up, and begin searching for the sex buddy of your dreams and it will all come to pass.