If your woman is on a crash diet because she know that you are quickly approaching the “have sex” date, reassure her that she need not worry all that much. Women worry so much about the way that they look during sex. They worry that if they are in a certain position their belly fat is going to hang over the penis. They think about how big their butt is going to look from behind. They even worry about the way that their cellulite is going to spread when they go spread eagle. The whole time they are having sex, especially with someone new, they are worried about what the guy is thinking about, well them. What women don’t understand is that the last thing you are thinking about is how fat she is. There is not a guy in the world who is pumping away that is thinking “man she needs to lose five pounds off her thighs”. During sex men don’t think about anything but shallow things.
What men are thinking about usually comes down to only a couple of things:
1) God this feels good
The only thing that a guy is normally thinking is how good having sex feels. They are simple creatures. They probably aren’t even looking at you, they are too focused on their own orgasm. If they are looking at your body they are thinking “tits”, “ass”, “naughty”. They aren’t pointing out your problem areas, they are just happy that anything feels as good as what they are feeling
2) What is next?
A guy usually has a favorite thing that gets him to climax. When having sex he may be thinking “what is the next excursion we are going to go on”. If he is someone who is able to last a while, he may be thinking what his next move is going to be. He may be plotting to turn her over, or to do things to her, but that is about the most in-depth a guy’s brain goes while he is having sex.
3) Unpleasant things
If he seems like he is a million miles away he may have a problem with premature you know what. If a guy is prone to cum too quickly, he may be thinking about something distracting while having sex. If he focuses too much on the act itself, he knows he is going to lose it. So, he may be thinking about his mom, or something that will kill his need to ejaculate until you are satisfied. He may be thinking about bills, his boss, whatever it is that will delay the sensation.
4) She is soooo hot
He isn’t thinking about how fat his partner is. If he is thinking anything, he is thinking that the woman he is with is hot. The way that she moves, the way that she looks at him, the way that she gyrates and the things that she says to him, are all ways that she gets him hot and bothered. Chances are that he is wondering how he got there with her naked, and how hot she is. If he wants to have sex with her again, he may be thinking about how to please her. He may be wondering if she is satisfied, or if she is enjoying yourself. This type of thinking is not the norm. Most guys who are having sex are focused and thinking about nothing more than getting off.
5) Give me more
He may be thinking that he wants more. He is almost assuredly thinking he wants more. A guy never wants the amazing feeling of sex to end. He may be thinking he wants her to move this way more, or that way more. He may be thinking he wants to have sex with her more. If she is wearing a shirt, he may be thinking that he could see her tits. If she is covering up in general, he is probably thinking he wishes he could see more of her. Guys love naked girl’s body. There is a big difference between the beauty of a woman’s body and a man’s. It is very rare that a man will have sex with someone that he finds repulsive. On the whole, if she has tits and an ass, he is thinking she is amazing.