﻿{"id":618,"date":"2013-08-02T18:34:12","date_gmt":"2013-08-02T18:34:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/?p=618"},"modified":"2013-08-03T20:40:47","modified_gmt":"2013-08-03T20:40:47","slug":"wife-had-an-affair-with-another-woman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/blog\/wife-had-an-affair-with-another-woman\/","title":{"rendered":"My Wife Had an Affair with Another Woman\u2026and I Am OK with it"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/index.php\/sex-dating-top-10\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/My-Wife-Had-an-Affair-with-Another-Woman.jpg\" alt=\"My-Wife-Had-an-Affair-with-Another-Woman\" width=\"400\" height=\"267\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-619\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/My-Wife-Had-an-Affair-with-Another-Woman.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/My-Wife-Had-an-Affair-with-Another-Woman-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a>It\u2019s the basis of so many pornos for a reason; most men fantasize about the idea of having <a href=\"http:\/\/www.askmen.com\/dating\/love_tip_200\/201_love_tip.html\" target=\"_blank\"> sex with two women at the same time<\/a>. Even if the scenes are two women having sex with each other without a man in sight, the male imaginations doesn\u2019t have to work terribly hard to envision itself in the middle of the action. Plus, watching women make out or have sex with each other is a huge turn-on because it can be so visually stimulating and, well\u2026 hot! You get two sets of curves, two nice asses, four breasts, and two vaginas, and dear god, who wouldn\u2019t want to watch that sort of action? These fantasies lead to many men being able to <SPAN STYLE=\"background-color: #ffffcc\"> cope with their wives having affairs with other women<\/span>, whereas an affair with another man would probably be the end of the marriage.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br clear=\"all\"><br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3> Bisexual Is OK\u2026 Lesbo Is NOT!<\/h3>\n<p>As long as your wife isn\u2019t a lesbian who has no interest in sex with men, but has bisexual proclivities and still enjoys having sex with you, what\u2019s the harm? According to many men, there isn\u2019t any. A study conducted by the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.utexas.edu\/\" target=\"_blank\"> University of Texas<\/a> revealed that a full half of the men surveyed said they wouldn\u2019t have a problem with their wives <strong>having an affair<\/strong> with another woman, and would not seek a divorce, where as if they had sex with another guy only 78% would bail on the marriage. In large part, this may be because the husbands are hoping that at some point they will be invited to join in and fulfill the threesome fantasies they have been jerking off to since puberty. It may also be because they simply don\u2019t feel threatened by it, and don\u2019t feel like their wife is as likely to run off with the chick as she would be with another man. Plus, there is no risk that she\u2019ll get pregnant from her extra marital activities.<br \/>\n<br clear=\"all\"><br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"420\" height=\"315\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/sj5BQ63rJG4\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><br \/>\n<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Your Wife&#8217;s Girl On Girl Affair Should be Welcomed<\/h3>\n<p>If your wife wants to experiment with having sex with another woman, should should not have to <em>find an affair<\/em> to do it. It can be an alright thing to consider. It sometimes even has the added bonus of making sex between the two of you hotter. The key to making it work is open and honest communication, and setting up clear expectations and guidelines that are agreeable to both of you. If you want to be a part of the action and make it a threesome, you need to let her know that this is what you are hoping for. If you want to be allowed to watch and masturbate while she\u2019s getting it on with her gal pal, see if all three of you think that could be fun. Or, if you are just fine with her having sex with the ladies on the side and don\u2019t necessarily feel like you need to be there, let her know if you\u2019d appreciate hearing recounts or want her to keep the details to herself. Be sure to ask her what her intentions are with the affair, too. Find out if she just wants casual sex or if she wants the relationship to have <a href=\"http:\/\/www.oprah.com\/relationships\/Emotional-Affairs-101\" target=\"_blank\"> an emotional component<\/a>, too. If one or more of the people involved in the situation don\u2019t agree about the boundaries, it could lead to misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and anger all around. Prevention is the best medicine, so be clear from the beginning about what works for you and what would make you heartsick.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/index.php\/sex-dating-top-10\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"tsbanner\" title=\"Best Sex Dating Sites To Find A Sex Buddy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/10bestsites.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"555\" height=\"28\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nWhile it may seem unconventional to a lot of people, your wife <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thefrisky.com\/photos\/8-celebs-who-have-opened-up-about-their-lesbian-affairs\/gillian2x600\/\" target=\"_blank\"> having a lesbian affair<\/a> does not have to be a negative experience. Hell, you may even love it and that is totally ok. There are no hard and fast rules about what constitutes a good or bad marriage. It all revolves around what works for both of you. If your wife is happy to be having sex with a woman but fully committed to you and you don\u2019t have a problem with it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with her <strong>having an affair with a woman on the side<\/strong>. Don\u2019t be confined by societal standards of commitment and infidelity if you don\u2019t share those standards. What happens in your marriage, or on the sidelines of it, is no one\u2019s business except the two people who exchanged vows and rings, deciding to build a life together.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h1><a title=\"Meet Someone For Great Sex At SocialSex\" href=\"http:\/\/www.socialsex.com\/dating\/freesexandadultfriends\/88822\/itsjustsex-blog-wifehadaffair-socialsex-FSAF\/\" target=\"_blank\">Special Offer For Itsjustsex Readers &#8211; Free Profile On SocialSex<\/a><\/h1>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s the basis of so many pornos for a reason; most men fantasize about the idea of having sex with two women at the same time. Even if the scenes are two women having sex with each other without a man in sight, the male imaginations doesn\u2019t have to work terribly hard to envision itself [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":623,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-618","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/618","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=618"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/618\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":624,"href":"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/618\/revisions\/624"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/623"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=618"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=618"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.itsjustsex.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=618"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}